Gay Catholic delivers 18,000 signatures to bishop asking to be reinstated

NEW YORK — A gay man ousted from posts at his Long Island parish after a critic complained that he … Continued

NEW YORK — A gay man ousted from posts at his Long Island parish after a critic complained that he had married his partner delivered a petition with more than 18,000 signatures on Thursday (April 11) to Bishop William Murphy, asking to be reinstated.

“Bishop Murphy, please let Nicholas Coppola resume volunteering at his parish — and make it clear that faithful gay and lesbian Catholics are welcome to participate fully in parish life in your diocese,” reads the petition. Murphy is longtime head of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Rockville Centre.

According to gay activist network GLAAD, which has been assisting Coppola, a security guard at the diocese agreed to deliver the petition but said that neither Murphy nor diocesan officials would meet with Coppola and representatives of the activist groups who accompanied him.

The diocese later released a statement saying that it “respects those who may have signed a petition” but said that it cannot change church teaching against gay marriage and expects others to respect that position as well.

Catholic doctrine “is not discrimination against homosexual men and women” and “no one has a right to discriminate against persons because of sexual orientation,” Murphy said in the statement.

But “all church institutions and teachers of the faith are bound to support this teaching, particularly by their public action,” the statement added.

In January, the pastor at St. Anthony’s Roman Catholic Church in Oceanside stripped Coppola of his jobs as a religious education teacher, lector and visitation minister. A top aide to Murphy had conveyed concerns to the parish after the bishop received an anonymous letter pointing out that Coppola wed his partner under New York’s new gay marriage law.

The case came to light last week after top Catholic officials, led by New York Cardinal Timothy Dolan, president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, said that the church needs to do a better job welcoming gays and showing that the institution is not “anti-anybody.”

GLAAD responded by promoting Coppola’s story to show that the church’s actions were not matching its words.

The petition drive, organized by the group Faithful America, was another effort to put pressure on the hierarchy, which is facing a sea change in public opinion on gay rights as well as the prospect of state laws and even the Supreme Court opening the door to same-sex marriage.

“The best part about telling my story is that it has reminded me that I’m not alone,” Coppola said Thursday, according to GLAAD. “I have been given so many words and signs of support and love by my fellow parishioners at St. Anthony’s parish. I’ve been stopped during my routine day by people who are letting me know that they care for me.”

While many Catholics have voiced support for Coppola, church conservatives have blasted his cause as an example of liberal intolerance and “bullying,” as the Catholic League’s Bill Donohue put it on Thursday.

“The American people respect the autonomy of religious institutions to craft their own rules and regulations, and they do not look kindly on bullying,” Donohue said in a statement.

“How ironic it is that those who have been screaming the most about the evils of bullying are the very ones who are its greatest practitioners — against Christians, no less. It’s time they learned the virtue of tolerance.”

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  • amelia45

    this is enormously sad for the Catholic Church. They have decided that someone’s entire soul and character are defined by the fact the he is gay. This wonderful, caring, loving, man who is a part of his Church community is an example of what it means to love one’s neighbor, to care for those who need assistance, to participate in the practice of his faith within his faith community. And the hierarchy have decided he is to be shunned.

    That was a very sad, hate filled person who wrote the bishop with the sole purpose of inflicting pain and humiliation on another human being. Each of us carries in us our own sins. No matter how hard we try, we are ultimately not able to be perfect. And if each of us had our sins made public, none of us would be worthy to represent our Church. The bishop made a terrible mistake – and played into the hands of those who hate. May God have mercy on him.

  • Limnbeau

    Amelia, If I may, I’d like to offer a Catholic perspective on some of the things you mention. There are some distinctions which may appear subtle but make all the difference in the world in this and so many issues like it.

    First, the Church has not made any “decision” regarding the soul and character of Mr. Coppola. Nor does she look to narrowly define who he is as “Gay”. Quite the contrary She lays claim upon each one of us proudly, as created in the image and likeness of God and thus totally equal in human dignity.

    Second, I would point out that the issue at hand is not one of “shunning” Mr. Coppola. He has not been banned from the church or helping feed the poor clothe the naked etc.

    Mr. Coppola WAS removed from his post as a TEACHER of the Catholic faith to incoming converts (RCIA). In order to explain the gravity of that distinction, I ask you to consider; Would it not be absurd to employ a teacher of mathematics who publicly disavowed the pythagorean theorum.

    There is also a rather important distinction to be made about the nature of the action (marrying his partner) which precipitated his dismissal. This I hope speaks to your insight about the imperfection (sinfulness) of any teacher of Catholic doctrine. The important distinction is that he could have arguably taught RCIA indefinitely, just as St. Paul taught, despite what he speaks of as a “thorn in his side”, but as soon as he PUBLICLY repudiates that which he is teaching he defacto ceases to witness to the former faith, and instead proclaims a different salvation. Which is fine, so long as he does not seek to do so under the auspices of teaching the Catholic faith.

    Lastly I wanted to ask you to reconsider your harsh words of the last paragraph. Do not see the irony in judging an unidentified letter writer as hateful, a Bishop as mistaken, and Mr. Coppola as wonderful and caring in light of your negative supposition of the Church’s overtly judgmental behavior?

  • LeastOfThese

    The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people–robbers, evildoers, adulterers–or even like this tax collector.

    Exsules filii Hevæ

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