Interfaith is a state of mind

VIA BLOOMBERG President Obama prepares to speak during a memorial service for victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting … Continued

The craziness around Halloween is hard to ignore and as with anything “sacred,” be it a day, a story, an object — it has multiple meanings. These days, as with so much in our polarized public culture, each meaning has its own advocates who ardently believe they have the whole truth.

There are our religious fundamentalists who oppose Halloween because of its pagan origins and occult and satanic symbols and believe the holiday undermines Christian values with its embrace of devils, demons, and goblins. Just as seriously, there are Wiccans who oppose Halloween for its offense to real witches by promoting stereotypes of wicked witches. (Opposition to fun often makes strange bed fellows.)

There are traditionalist Jews and members of other faiths who oppose Halloween because it is a Christian holiday — All Saints Day. There are our simplicity folks who oppose Halloween because they see it as another construction of Madison Avenue that has turned one more holiday into a commercialized ($5 billion) consumption experience. There are our concerned parents who oppose Halloween because of its increasing tolerance of violent images and vandalism.

There are serious Christians who reject the ghost, ghouls, witches, and vampires of Halloween and instead emphasize the Christian tradition of honoring all saints known and unknown. And then there is the majority of parents and children who simply enjoy the candy and costumes, the pranks and trick and treating, and the carved pumpkins and haunted houses of Halloween.

So, not surprisingly, depending on who one is and to what community one belongs and one’s psychological predisposition, Halloween is indeed many things. It is harmless fun or anti-Christian, anti-Jewish or anti-Wiccan, amusingly scary, chillingly violent or crassly consumerist. It is all of these as well as a Saint Fest, a day to honor the dead, a harvest festival, and a psychological release as, around us, nature “dies” for the winter and the day darkens earlier and earlier.

It seems to me that the cultural and spiritual energy surrounding Halloween is directly related to this multiplicity of meanings. (My wisdom tradition teaches that, contrary to conventional understanding, something is sacred not because it has only one specific meaning but because it has indeterminate and inexhaustible meaning.)

In other words, there is a partial truth to each of these meanings and rather than simply dismiss the meaning or meanings we feel are silly or wrong or even dangerous we might try to incorporate some insight or aspect of that meaning, however small, into our take on Halloween.

Personally, I grew up attending a Jewish parochial school that strongly discouraged any participation in Halloween festivities. But my parents, with a bit of reluctance, and quite a bit of pleading from me and my five brothers, treated Halloween as a secular day and permitted us to dress up and go trick or treating with emphasis on the treating rather than the tricking.

But we were reminded that Halloween was not a Jewish holiday and as age appropriate actually learned a little about the origins of the holiday and where we as Jews differed. And there were also some interesting additions to our celebration. Costumes were home-made, not purchased, and there were no hatchet in the head costumes. For every one piece of candy we got to keep we had to give away one piece. (We started with the non-kosher candy!)

And of course there was UNICEF — our celebrating and candy gathering were connected to giving to the less fortunate. One might say that we had fun without the fear and the frenzy — a kind of fun that transcended different faiths and backgrounds — in which our present joy superseded a pagan past, candy trumped creed, and treats trumped theology.

Be Safe and Happy Halloween!

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  • Secular1

    “Questioning why God allows innocent children to die spans millennia, referenced in Matthew 2:16-18, which features the order for the slaughter of children in Bethlehem by an evil king. I hope that Newtown’s slain will be remembered as modern-day Holy Innocents whose lost lives redeem our world.” This is really rich coming from either of the three, so called, abrahamic faith adherents. Don’t you know the answer already? Your fairy tales tell it so clearly. The answer is your make believe sky daddy does it, and that is why it happens. Take any of these three stories and the theme is the same your sky daddy’s thirst for the youngen’ blood and flesh.

    It starts with the story of Isaac. Ok you muslims it starts with the story Ishmael – are you happy? This story was a dry run, for your sky daddy. You know the sky daddy appears as a voice in that coward Avram and the voice tells him to butcher his son. Which he prepares to do without a hesitation (in contrast with him masquerading that nubile thing Sarai at age of, what 70? When he was scared SCATless that egyptians may kill him). But then your sky daddy gets a bit squeamish and calls of the whole thing.

    Next your sky daddy decrees that all the first born of the Egyptians be killed or be dead. This time he does not get squeamish, he goes through with it wit active help from his chosen people, equally devoid of moral scruples, that is your religious fore parents, you three.

    The thrid story is of Jephthah’s daughter. Here is definitely the nubile young thing. Her stupid pappy promises your sky daddy that he will give up as a sacrifice to your sky daddy that first creature that comes out to greet him from the battles. How this dunce thought an animal or something would come out to greet him. Perhaps the big ox was expecting his wife to show up perhaps and wanted to get rid of her. Now lo and behold his daughter comes out prancing to greet her idiot of a father and your sky daddy insisted on her death.

  • amelia45

    Ahhh. Thank you, Stevens-Arroyo. I felt that sense of real community of caring people who came together to acknowledge loss and support those who face the pain of that loss directly. What was accomplished at Newtown restores my faith in what it means to be a person of faith AND a citizen of this country. No matter the name we call our god, we can call on Him together.

  • ANNUIT COEPTIS

    Even that we are a nation where most beleive in a God, we are a nation of many religions where as a interfaith service is the ancer for a common event that calls for a religious type of a service but we are a nation that all Americans can practice or not pratice a religion which is a liberty by our supreme law, the Constitution.