The pope as pastor

By Sister Mary Ann Walsh Reports on Pope Benedict’s September 16-19 visit to England and Scotland where he is expected … Continued

By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

Reports on Pope Benedict’s September 16-19 visit to England and Scotland where he is expected to meet with victims of sexual abuse by clerics recalls the similar meeting that took place in Washington when the pope visited the United States in 2008. Cardinal Séan O’Malley of Boston was at that meeting, as he recounts in the just released book, Benedict XVI: Essays and Reflections on his Papacy. (Full disclosure: I’m the editor.)The book is available in bookstores and on Amazon.com.

Here in Cardinal O’Malley’s own words:

“Prior to Pope Benedict XVI’s visit to the United States in 2008, much discussion took place about whether or not the Holy Father would address the clergy sexual abuse crisis. Once the Pope arrived, his words and actions made clear that he would not avoid this painful reality. In the midst of Pope Benedict’s second day in Washington, two of my colleagues from the Archdiocese of Boston and five survivors of clergy sexual gathered in the chapel at the Vatican embassy for what turned out to be an historic and pivotal meeting with the Pope. We spoke with the Holy Father about the impact of the abuse crisis, and heard his message of hope and reconciliation. For many Catholics in the United States, and members of the wider community, this meeting was the high point of the Papal Visit and one of the Holy Father’s most important actions.

During our very prayerful and emotional encounter with the Holy Father, we were blessed with an extraordinary opportunity to witness Pope Benedict not only as the leader of our Church, but as our pastor. The Holy Father took care to address each person individually and provided the survivors the time to speak freely. It was evident that at times they shared their painful experiences in a whisper. The Holy Father listened intently, often clasping the survivors’ hands, and responded tenderly and reassuringly. One of the survivors, unable to find words, conveyed her heartache through tears that spoke volumes with her ‘sounds of sorrow.’ Though we would not hear the Pope’s private conversation with the woman, by observing her moving from tears to a calmed, smiling expression, we knew that the Pope had gently comforted her. Later that day, she shared with us that the Holy Father had offered his congratulations on learning that she would soon be married. In doing so, the Holy Father helped her to experience a healing moment and to see a future that would hold the promise of renewed hope and joy.”

Similar meetings have occurred since then and reveal the pastoral side of the pope who has taken strong steps to address the terrible human sin that has blighted the Catholic Church and been strongly condemned by him. The crime touches him deeply, as he indicated to reporters flying with him to the United States : “I am deeply ashamed and we will do what is possible so this cannot happen again in the future.” He went on to say that, “It is a great suffering for the Church in the United States and for the church in general and for me personally that this could happen…It is difficult for me to understand how it was possible that priests betray in this way their mission … to these children.”

Pope Benedict has enough staff to deal with painful and troublesome matters. That he chooses to become so personally involved in addressing this crisis speaks loudly of his caring, commitment and leadership.

Sister Mary Ann Walsh
Director of Media Relations
United States Conference of Catholic Bishops

  • PSolus

    Mary,I see that you are a director; do you think that if you do that job well enough, that you will one day be promoted to bishop?

  • WmarkW

    “It is difficult for me to understand how it was possible that priests betray in this way their mission … to these children.”It’s possible because the Church is run by people who aren’t parents. And its ministry is becoming increasingly irrelevant to people who don’t see it as being in touch with their real lives.

  • CalltoHoliness1419

    The pope represents Christ, who is the true Head of the Church. Both are shepherds: one on earth, One in heaven.Both have human hearts.

  • mac4700

    Blah, blah, blah. Words, words, words. What, in fact, is being done to protect my children from predator priests?

  • areyousaying

    “That he chooses to become so personally involved in addressing this crisis speaks loudly of his caring, commitment and leadership.”And what does his continued unwillingness to turn his know pervert priests over to civil authorities speak of? Hypocrisy? Lies? International criminal racketeering?The huge, infected, puss filled zit of hiding perverts while gay bashing is still on your pompous nose, Sister, and, apparently, despite Ratzinger’s “deep, personal anguish”, it’s not going to go away anytime soon. No amount of “holy water” will ever wash it away.

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